Isn't it a bit weird that we like to own people. Why do we say we love someone and then want them to do what we want them to do. I don't think that can be called loving.
One of the deepest prisons in our world is the saviour lover concept. It is every where you look.. our world is build on this strange life perverting concept. Its in fairy tales, its in love songs its in books its in films. Its in there deep and it keeps you in need.
Everyone seems to be looking to be saved by finding someone, they even call them 'the one' like oh he's not the one i know its not going to last.
And some people have found the one and they seem to be terrified of loosing the one while others just have someone that sort of will do they also seem sad, they demand they do what they want them to do.
And some just do it religoulsly and dont really do people and think they are free.
I find it perverse and really quite strange but most seem convinced this is how to behave.