Do you need rules to live by ?
I dont think so..
Rules are for robots of personality
A personality robot you makes choises from habit or because you are supposed to or because others expect it of you.
But a you you will just choose what makes you happy.
How else are you supposed to get beyond the illusory tangarine of this funny old world ?
So rules, shoulds and expectations are for the lost personality robot person.
Do you want to be you you or do you want to be a personality robot..
At least if you want to be you you.. there are no rules.. other than what makes you happy.
So you can be happy then..
If you want to be..
Start ignoring your rules..